Oscar and Louie love to go for walks with the stroller. They know that when they get tired or a little overheated, they'll be scooped up and put in the bottom carrier to enjoy the rest of the walk.
There is a surrendering and a happiness that is so noticeable as they both plop down and get comfortable together. Never a struggle or any sort of frustration. They sit down, usually on top of one another, and you can visibly see them relax, enjoy the scenery, enjoy the ride - I can tell that they're happy. Louie will often give a big sigh, indicating his appreciation for the change from walking to riding. It's up to me to make sure that their ride is smooth and safe, that we don't steer off the path or run into any obstacles. I even let them have a few snacks along the way - I KNOW they love that.
There is this immense need to always be the driver - having full control of everything. To know exactly what the next turn will be, in full control of the direction, surroundings, and speed in which you're moving. It's not until we take a break from having this need to drive, becoming the passenger that the experience gets really...well better. It's a letting go, trusting in the path you're on and maybe even putting a little faith on who IS driving. It's getting comfortable, letting out a big sigh and having some snacks, - happiness.
Know that you are walking your own path, but find peace to know that when you get tired, overheated, confused, frustrated, fearful, it's time to become a special passenger.
