Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Rollin' in mah' CrockPot

There's something very adult-like-feeling when you use your CrockPot. It doesn't matter what you are making, when you put it in the CrockPot, you suddenly transition into your mother, aunt, or adult like figure you had growing up.

"Is there a plug by this table? I need to plug in my CrockPot."
"Can you hold on a minute, I need to go stir my CrockPot."

Millions of recipes, billions of combinations, simple, and easy to follow instructions, minimal prep and voila, you have a yummy, warm, cooked-to-perfection meal. I am an absolute DISASTER in the kitchen. I mean it. But last night I made a soup, not even my own recipe BTW, via my CrockPot and now I think I could launch my own cooking network. It was gooood. So easy too! I cut up my vegetables, measured out the seasoning and set the temp to warm all-day-long. However, I realized afterward how happy I was that I followed the recipe. I realized that one wrong ingredient, too much of something, not enough of another thing, my meal may not have turned out so perfect.

Say for example I had added too much garlic and it was just sitting in there, warming...all day. My meal would have been unpleasant, maybe too garlic-y. Say I didn't add enough broth, maybe my soup would have been dry or too thick.

We, in a sense are human CrockPots. Each day, everyday we cook up something new..... how often are we taking a look at our ingredient list. How often are we paying attention to what is within us, growing, merging, boiling, simmering? What is the dialogue in your head, what words are you reading, what shows and images are you looking at, watching and committing to memory, what conversations are you having. All of these things we experience through our senses add to our ingredient list. At the end of the day are you exhausted, energized, frustrated or happy?

Take a moment in stillness to address all of the things that you're cooking up within you. Begin to notice what elements may or may not be helping to create a feeling that you want to cultivate. Fill your CockPot with things that will fulfill you, maybe even help serve others. The beauty of this practice is that each day is a new day to begin.


Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Serenity...even among-st FITBIT failures!

Here is your step by step guide on the do's / don'ts to surviving a #fitbit malfunction or breakdown:  

  1. Try to relax - it's going to be ok. Find something to occupy your thoughts and mind that does not remind you of tracking anything. 
  2. Don't panic - know that it's all really going to be ok. Perhaps you become a "rider" or take a ride, and let someone else be the walker?
  3. Try not to curse the person who talked you into getting a #fitbit because really, you were COMPLETELY fine without one BUT now thanks to them, you can't live without it.
  4. Don't panic - remind yourself that you're ok, noone is injured and this is only temporary. 
  5. DO NOT...I repeat, DO NOT LOOK AT YOUR STATS OR HOW YOUR FRIENDS ARE DOING - when you get the weekly email, just delete it. Don't open it. 
  6. DO Frantically search online for answers and try EVERYTHING. EVERYTHING. I'm talking 2 days of trying everything. Go through 7 paperclips trying to reset, use every usb within a 5 mile radius, try it all. 
  7. DO Email customer support hourly, call them, online chat ALL.DAY.LONG
  8. DO breath deeply - try to get a grip that time is NOT lost if steps aren't tracked. 
  9. Reread and repeat step #5. Hourly. 
  10. Remind yourself that the day IS still worth while, and it is not in fact a "waste of a day, without a point" even though your steps are going on trackless. 
Just got a confirmation a new one is on the way...phew....You too can find the support you need during times of a #fitbitcrisis. There is support. @nmyoder1202 #fitbit #joovy #hagardaily @shihtzu @dailydougie @theellenshow

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Special Passengers...

Oscar and Louie love to go for walks with the stroller. They know that when they get tired or a little overheated, they'll be scooped up and put in the bottom carrier to enjoy the rest of the walk. 

There is a surrendering and a happiness that is so noticeable as they both plop down and get comfortable together. Never a struggle or any sort of frustration. They sit down, usually on top of one another, and you can visibly see them relax, enjoy the scenery, enjoy the ride - I can tell that they're happy. Louie will often give a big sigh, indicating his appreciation for the change from walking to riding. It's up to me to make sure that their ride is smooth and safe, that we don't steer off the path or run into any obstacles. I even let them have a few snacks along the way - I KNOW they love that.

There is this immense need to always be the driver - having full control of everything. To know exactly what the next turn will be, in full control of the direction, surroundings, and speed in which you're moving. It's not until we take a break from having this need to drive, becoming the passenger that the experience gets really...well better. It's a letting go, trusting in the path you're on and maybe even putting a little faith on who IS driving. It's getting comfortable, letting out a big sigh and having some snacks, - happiness. 

Know that you are walking your own path, but find peace to know that when you get tired, overheated, confused, frustrated, fearful, it's time to become a special passenger.  

Monday, May 18, 2015

Unexpected and open doors...



We recently did some home improvement work on our mud room and opened up a new door into the kitchen. During the demo phases, my brother-in-law cut a small square to help give measurements and guidance as to where the floor was, etc. It was like a VIP doggie door for my little Louie. He stood for awhile and inspected the door and it took him some time to actually pass through the small open space in the drywall. After a few minutes, he went in and out as he pleased and it actually ended up being the perfect size for him. It was a little too small for Oscar - he couldn't fit through, but Louie seemed to own the world through this special secret little passageway.

In “The Sound of Music” (1965), Maria says, “When God closes a door, some way he opens a window.

We need to look beyond the obvious open doors in life, and sometimes when it feels like we've been shut out, find that alternative open invite. We may need some time to find the open window or the perfect size door for us - but knowing it is there is step one. Then, it's getting over the fear of what's ahead and taking the journey through. Let the light and open breeze of this new entryway / "open window" hit your body, walk through. Everyone has their own personal perfect journey ahead of them. Your door will be different from your friend's window - know that it is meant for you. Feel the energy and openness this new journey can guide you in. Recognize the fear, because it is so real, but walk with it instead of having it hold you back.

Look for your newly opened door, inspect it, and then walk on thru - It will lead you in the right and perfect direction.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Miss Muffet

Mother Goose once shared a story with us about Miss Muffet. The gist of the story is that M. Muffet was sitting on some sort of comfortable cushion - we assume she's happy, and enjoying some cottage cheese or yogurt paired with some whey - which I assume would be protein but I'm not sure Goose knew a lot about protein powders. Anyways, along comes this GUY...she freaks out and runs away. End of story. 

Has someone come along and disrupted your joy? "Scared" you right away from being in a happy state of mind? Maybe it's a coworker with a bad attitude - you're trying your best to work and get through the day and someone comes along with their negativity and shoves you off your tuffet. Is a friend bringing you down? Or is someone trying to invade your space. Joy is something we not only have to create and cultivate but protect. This joy is a "space" that we have to hold for ourselves in order to find peace, happiness, calm, release, etc. 
Don't let that nasty old spider scare you from your tuffet - enjoy your curds and whey. 

 

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Level Orange

If you've traveled by air in the last decade, you're probably familiar with airports, airlines and their employees referencing a threat level "color," This color or series of colors is an advisory system or scale to help indicate which actions, are necessary to help ensure safety. A Level Green indicates the need for lower security or precautionary measures, where a Level Orange indicates 'high risk of danger,' and being on high alert. Different circumstances, events, actions, words, situations or even people can affect and change the color / level of security necessary.

What about for you? What is your advisory system or scale? For some of us, we operate all day at a Level Red - on guard, defensive and tense. Maybe we're at a Level Blue today, feeling slightly guarded but having no real feeling of threat coming our way - maybe we should be on a higher alert? In order to identify what level you are or should be at, you first need to be aware of your surroundings and happenings. Pay attention to those circumstances, events, actions, words and people and try to identify with how you feel. From there, you can better assess what actions are necessary which will indicate which "level" you should be at to ensure your safety.  

Prepare for safe travels throughout your day today and enjoy the journey.  

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